Yesterday was Rick’s birthday. Rick was the star of a previous blog post: “My Adoption – A Fairytale.”
Getting Rick the perfect present is not easy. The man has all of the gadgets one could possibly want. He is a frequent stayer at Sam’s Club, so he sees the gadgets, buys the gadgets, and shares the gadgets! We have been blessed to have some gadgets as well: turkey fryer, quesadilla maker, and more!
Surprising Rick is not easy either. He has a Facebook account so that he can keep up on all of the happenings of his friends and family. He is not much for writing status updates himself, and getting him to “like” a post is pretty much as active as he gets. However, this past summer when my son posted a picture of his swollen eye due to a bug bite, Rick knew – because of Facebook – before I did. In fact, he texted me to find out what happened!
Yesterday, though, I surprised Rick. Early in the morning, I called Hugo’s (the grocery store across the street) and ordered balloons for delivery. I still giggle when I think about the man protesting to me, “The only thing across the street from us is an appliance store.” I kindly told him that I meant across the other street! As I heard from Rick himself, the balloons showed up at the same time that his sister called to wish him a happy birthday and just as his wife and her daughter entered the motel with birthday lunch. He was surprised! The full package was a great mind picture for me from five hours away, and I am glad that so many people celebrated him. What fun!
We spend a lot of time running around doing things for ourselves and for our jobs, but sometimes we need to think about others. November is National Adoption Month, and I have been challenged to think about orphans and their plight for the past 15 days. Adoption and orphan care is just one way that we can think beyond our own lives. Our neighbors, our families, and our friends need to know that we think about them and that we care about them.
I am awful at remembering birthdays. Thank goodness for Facebook and its reminders! Thank goodness for Facebook and its ability to write on people’s walls with some special thought. I am also horrible at remember other days that are important to those who are important to me. However, I do love to get things for people when I think of them. When I saw chocolate chip cookie dough in a box for sale at Target, I had to buy some for my friend who loves cookie dough. When I see chocolate at CVS while picking up a prescription, I have to buy some for our church custodian. He also likes Pepsi, but I will not spend money on Pepsi!
Taking the time to celebrate our friends, families, and coworkers, as well as reaching outside of own homes into causes such as post-prison ministries and orphan care is important. What will I do today to show someone else that they are important to me? Yesterday, I sent Rick balloons. Today, I will ….